Nov 16, 2012

The Effect Of Cords Of Attachment

By Dianne Crane


You have probably experienced it with at least one person or situation in your life. It was something that ended badly and now whenever you think about it, all the old feelings of anger, resentment and hurt come right back. You know the past is the past, what's done is done and there's no reason why you should still feel the way you do, but somehow you just can't seem to reconcile what your head tells you and what your heart feels. The reason for this is the influence of cords of attachment.

Every person has an aura, a field of electromagnetic energy around the physical body. Energy flows out of and into this aura all the time. When you meet someone, energy flows from your aura into that person's and vice versa. This flow of energy is like a bond that forms between you, a tie that binds.

This bond can be healthy and positive. It can make you feel happy whenever you think of that person or the great times you've had together. A positive bond like this is called a spiritual tie and is a wonderful thing to have in your life.

If the bond is negative, it is called a cord of attachment. This has the opposite effect on your life that a spiritual tie has. It drains you, leaves you with negative feelings and thoughts and blocks the flow of energy in your aura. You will keep repeating the same negative behavior patterns, no matter how hard you try not to. It can also affect your health, leaving you with problems like high blood pressure or depression.

The negative bond will not go away by itself. A cord of attachment is permanent and remains even after the other person has died. However, you don't have to despair. You can cut the cord and release all the energy that has such a negative effect on you, so that you can move on.

You cannot cut the negative ties simply by not coming into contact with the person anymore. Those cords will still be there, irrespective of the distance between you and the other person. This is why it doesn't help to move away after a traumatic experience like rape. In addition, they say that time heals all wounds, but it doesn't. The cords will remain unless you slice through them.

You can in fact keep having a relationship with the other person even after cutting the cord. This is why the idea of cord-cutting can be so helpful in helping to heal relationships. You cannot necessarily end your relationship with your mother, but you can break the negative bond between you and just hang on to the positive.

To benefit from cord-cutting, you should seek the help of a healer. This can be a holistic healer, a spiritual healer, a life coach, a counselor or a psychotherapist who is trained in cord-cutting techniques. It can help you with many different kinds of problem, from why you don't get along with that co-worker or the in-laws to dealing with serious trauma. In fact, many healers report that cutting cords of attachment between rape victims and the people who attacked them have helped these victims heal and move forward again.




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