Aug 17, 2013

How To Please Your Man: Ten Ways To Keep Your Guy Happy

By Joury Farah


Do you need help understanding how to please your man? What makes a guy tick, anyway? Why is it that male psychology can be so hard to understand sometimes? Ladies, the truth is, pleasing your partner is simple. First, you've got to understand that men are wired differently than women. No matter how much you might wish they would act just like your best girlfriend, the truth is, most of them never will. Here are ten ways to keep your guy happy - you're sure to love his reaction.

One of the most important ways to please your man is to be supportive of him. While guys may seem tough on the outside, they have many of the same insecurities as anyone else. As a result, it is important to stand by them and offer support and guidance when it is needed and wanted.

Drama seems to follow some women around like a puppy, but your man will be much happier if you try to check the drama at the door. Granted, there are going to be those days, but try as much as you can to keep the drama to a minimum. If you are having a moment, bring your guy into the conversation and talk about what is going on and don't flip out with every chance you get.

All relationships must be based on trust and as a result, you must trust your man. If you can't get a hold of him for an afternoon, don't immediately assume the worst. Chances are he was having a busy day at work and couldn't call you back. In addition, if you don't trust him, you run the risk of hurting his self-esteem and making you look like you are nagging all the time.

A very big turnoff and a great way to lose a guy quickly is to be too needy. Instead, watch the neediness and you will keep him happy. If you feel as though you need something else from him, you will need to sit down and discuss it, but don't always be focused on what he can do for you. If you demand too much, then you will become hard to deal with and chances are he won't stick around too long.

Don't order your guy around and tell him what he can and can't be doing. Don't treat him like he is a toddler and you will wind up with a very happy man. Guys can only take this kind of treatment for so long before they are out the door and you will be left alone.Your guy will be very pleased if you take an interest in what interests him. Be sure to take time to go to a game with him if he is into sports or go hunting with him one early morning. You may not always enjoy it, but if you give it a try, he will love you all the more.

Giving your guy the green light to spend time with his buddies is one of the fastest ways to enjoy a happy home life. Think about it: do you want to spend time with a guy who is sullen because the guys are out playing golf, or would you rather hang with a happy partner who is the envy of all the guys who "have to stay home"?

Men want oral for several reasons and knowing those reasons will help knowing how to please your man in bed with oral sex.For one, it is symbolically important. Not only is oral pleasurable for a man, but this act shows his vulnerability. You as the woman have the man at your mercy and are in control of the sexual dynamic. Being able to give oral sex can be a spiritual experience which brings you and your partner closer together. Understanding this can help you have a more positive mindset when it comes to pleasing your man in bed with oral sex.

Secondly, giving him head can be the ultimate visual when it comes to lovemaking. Men are usually more visual when it comes to sleeping with women. Seeing their lover performing oral is a huge turn on. Play with that and use this fact to your advantage. You can incorporate many tactics with any foreplay you might already do. Showing off your body with sexy clothes and lingerie can really get him in the mood. Even simulating oral sex with an inanimate object can trick his mind into thinking about getting head. This tip may even prime you for delivering the ultimate pleasure to your man.

Third, listen to him and give him complete attention. Men are not shy in what they want. As long as it is within your comfort level, do what he wants. Vocalize your adoration for his sexual qualities. Your already putting him at the center of the universe by giving him a blow job, you might as well inflate his ego more. Once again, this can also help you get into the proper mindset for pleasing your man.Lastly, be sure to use variety when pleasing your partner. Experiment with touching his erogenous zones while giving oral. Try using your hand or hands while performing too. Try going deep if you can and move back-and-forth from gentle to fast. Don't take forever though, men can easily become impatient if your romance is taking too long.




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