Sep 7, 2013

How To Get A Girl To Like You

By George Drummond


For a lot of men, the very idea of being able to make a girl like them seems kind of like some secret skill that they just don't have a clue about. It doesn't have to be all that complicated, though. I get why it can seem that way at time, especially if you have listened to a lot of traditional dating advice that men get that always seems to be focused on buying her things and fawning over her as if she was perfect in every which way. All of those things are really ineffective and a lot of the time, detrimental if you really want to be able to make a woman like you.

If you are wondering how to get a girl to like you fast, then be her friend. For her to notice you, first ensure you are in her circle of friends as girls don't just like random strangers. Once you have won her over as a friend you can now start flirting with her. This will let her know of your intentions and she will most likely respond by flirting back if she likes you or not if she doesn't.Another tip on how to get a girl to like you is by acting confident- girls like guys who are confident. Being confident will show a girl that you believe in yourself and she will enjoy being around you.

Flirting is supposed to be a fun thing to do, but the way that a lot of men go about it, they suck all of the fun right out of it. When you put a lot of pressure on yourself when flirting with a woman, you are almost always guaranteed that you are going to be taking the fun out of the experience. Lighten up and have some fun when you are flirting with her.

Girls are social beings - if you want to know another great tip on how to get a girl to like you, be social. If you are trying to impress a girl show her that you are social and she won't get bored being around you. She needs to know that she will have a great time meeting your friends or her friends while the two of you start dating.

Talk to her- Some guys fear talking to girls they really like. To get a girl to like you back you have to talk to her first before anything else. You can start by sharing ideas or hobbies before letting her know of your intentions. Make sure that you have an interesting topic to talk to her about so that she doesn't get bored. Just be yourself and make her laugh. She will like you more if you are funny and make her feel good.Many guys often ask the question of how to get a girl to like you, but following the above tips should help.

It's not always as easy as some people think, but it's usually never as hard as people try to make it sound. You just have to repeat a method a few times, and you will probably find success. But don't get ahead of yourself. You can't fight human nature. So you have to find things that work towards your advantage.

Girls tend to like guys who are somewhat mysterious to them. Engage girls in conversation, but don't let them know everything about you, especially if you have a prison record or warrant out for your arrest. There is some truth to the old cliche of girls being attracted to the 'strong, silent type'. This should be easy to pull off if you follow tip number one above.

The experts say that girls like to hang out with guys who are funny. Most guys interpret this to mean telling jokes and being the life of the party is how to get a girl to like you, but this is not necessarily the case. Seeing the humor in everyday situations, always having a positive attitude and a smile on your face will attract more girls than a guy trying to attract attention to themselves. (See tip one above)

Use good hygiene to get a girl to like you. Why do you think we like girls? Because they dress sexy and they are hot! Duh! So, if you look like you crawled out of a toilet your not going to within get 10 feet of a girl! Take a shower, trim your nails, and brush you teeth. One of the biggest secrets I discovered in recent years has been attracting powers of pheromones. What are they? Pheromones are natural chemicals released by the body to illicit a sexual response in the opposite sex.

The solution to this problem is to actually try some things out. Don't just expect something to work every time, you have to try the same exact method several times. Only then can you assume it's not that effective for you personally in that environment. Change that method slightly and try again. Once you have found a method that gets girls interested, you just have to approach enough of them, until you find one that has enough in common, and who's feelings will grow until they really start to like you. This may just be the beginning but it is a very crucial step. The method of trying, trying, and trying again, then using your feedback to change, and then trying and trying again until you have the right "formula" is almost a surefire method to getting girls to like you at least enough to show interest in taking the next step. Once you have that "formula", you can repeat it with the girl you want to attract, and the more you spend time with her, the more likely she is to develop an interest. That may seem like a long process, but it's different for everyone, some people are funny, others are strong+silent, and sometimes girls like different things, there's no surefire way to get a girl to like you that works for everyone.




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