"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
That will be an incredible day.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Always trust your path.
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
However, when you really think about it, our lives are a perfect representation of one thing ending and another thing coming into the picture. Every single time you experience a painful ending it creates something completely new.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Then that new person came in and healed the wounds you were carrying.They soothed the pain that was turning you inside out.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
That will be an incredible day.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Notice how I didn't say "want."
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Always trust your path.
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Need help staying motivated and inspired? Visit Evan Sanders' website called The Better Man Project and dive into these inspirational 24 Undeniably Spot On Tired Quotes and these 43 Perfect Letting Go Quotes For Moving On to start living a better life.
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